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Grandmother of the Bride or Groom - Outfits & DressesThe brides grandmother looking elegant at the wedding

Being the brides grandmother is a special privilege.

There are some beautiful wedding outfits available for older women, that will really make you look glamorous, as befits your honored status on this day.

For your granddaughters or grandsons special day, you play an important role, and will feature in many of the official wedding photographs. These photos will be treasured by the bride and groom and their close family, so investing in a stylish and elegant dress or suit is a real investment.

Grandmother of the Bride Outfits

Depending on how formal the wedding is, you can wear a range of styles. 

For a semi-formal wedding, there are some fabulous pant suits that will look great.  For a more formal occasion, a jacket and skirt or elegant dress may be expected.

If the brides mother is planning to wear a church-style hat, then you may wish to consider whether you do also, though it's increasingly down to personal preference.

Although it's traditional for the mother of the bride and groom to discuss their dress choices, as long as your dress doesn't look too much like the bridesmaids or brides gown, it is  fine for you to wear it. 


Wedding Etiquette for Grandmothers

Even before the wedding, if you have any mobility or health issues that affect you, let the bride and groom know what, if any, special arrangements will be needed.  For example, if you need help walking, they can assign one of the ushers to look after you.  If you have any special dietary requirements, they can advise the caterers who will be pleased to cater to your needs.

As probably the oldest female relative, a thoughtful gesture may be to offer a "something borrowed" as one of your ideas for helping your grandaughter prepare for her wedding.

As part of the extended wedding party, it's likely that you will be offered a corsage, though it's wise to check during the wedding planning process. 

Grandmothers are special guests at their grandchildrens weddingDepending on the formality and size of the wedding, the bride and groom may choose to have a formal procession down the aisle.  Usually the grandparents are first, followed by the grooms parents and the brides mother. 

This is followed by the bridal procession, with the bridesmaids and groomsmen, flower girls and maid of honor, and finally the entrance of the bride and her father.

At the wedding reception, you can expected to be seated close to the top table, to have a good view of the newly married couple. 

Choosing a wedding gift is largely up to you - you may wish to choose something from the bride and grooms gift registry or give a cheque to help the young couple to buy something to furnish their home.

Most importantly, this is a day for you to enjoy, spend time with family and feel immensely proud.

Recommended Resources

Dresses for the Mother of the Groom - clothing, shoes & wedding etiquette

Fashions for the Mother of the Bride - flattering dress styles & outfit choices

Petite Mother of the Bride Dresses - styles for moms and grandmothers in petite sizes